Top 5 Tips On How To Reconcile With Your Ex

The end of a romantic relationship can be a huge blow, especially if this is something that you did not want. If you are experiencing regretDepositphotos_80093202_original-1000x667 after a relationship has ended, there are things you can do to convince her that it’s going to be better the second time around. Read on to know how you can restore your relationship and get your ex back fast.

Talk to your ex

This is often the most overlooked step that most men fail to do. If you are sure that you just made the biggest mistake of your life by letting her go, let her know. Who knows, your ex could be feeling the same thing! However, this step comes with some caveats. For one, you have to make sure that this regret comes from a place of knowing that you just let go of the love of your life, and not because you’re just missing someone to cuddle with at night. Also, once you decide to talk, make sure that you are emotionally prepared to do so, and that she is as well. Getting together to talk about your failed relationship when both of you are still emotionally charged from your previous encounter will not do any hopes for reconciliation any good. Most importantly, don’t be pushy and needy or you risk pushing the other person further away. Ask respectfully and if she declines, accept it and wish her the best.

Realize and accept your mistakes and work on them

Whether or not your ex agrees to take another chance on you, it is time to do the next step and acknowledge the mistakes that led to the failure of the relationship. Whether it was cheating or letting the relationship go, the death of a relationship does not happen because of what one person did. Even if you do didn’t do anything wrong, things you failed to do may have contributed to your relationship’s demise.

It is equally important to start working on yourself. Join new social circles, be more involved at work, get a new hobby. Not only will these things serve as great distractions, they also help you live a more fulfilled life, something that your ex may find appealing the next time you meet.

Initiate the NO Contact Rule

If the ex turns down your proposal to restore the relationship, it is time to enforce the No Contact rule. This is the hardest part of a breakup, but the rule works. No contact for 90 days after a breakup gives you time to gain perspective, to keep your distance from an overly emotional situation and to focus on yourself.

Take it slow

If after three months of no contact you still feel like you cannot afford to let her go, it is time to let your presence felt. Do this in a casual way, like a text or a short message on Facebook. Apologize if you must, but stay respectful and let her set the pace. Avoid being pushy about wanting to see her or getting back together or your ex could see this as a major red flag.

Call

If you sense that your casual text messages as being received graciously, you can take the next step and call her. Most women find it charming if you ask for permission to call, especially if there’s a possibility that your first actual conversation after the breakup could be awkward. Keep the call casual as you invite her for a drink or a weekend walk at the park. Choose an activity that will give you both the chance to talk in a relaxed environment. If your ex-girlfriend turns it down, give her space. Never, ever try to insist or push an invite, especially during the first call or you risk losing her all over again.

If you are still reeling from a painful breakup, you may be looking for any advice on how to get your ex back fast. However, it is important to remember that when it comes to love and relationships, taking time and giving the other person her own space could be the best thing you can do, especially if you want a reconciliation. Follow the tips above, avoid rushing things, and work on yourself instead. Who knows, three months of no contact and dedicated self-improvement may be all you need to get your ex’s attention. By then, she may be ready to give you another chance and you can start working your way to her heart once again.

Eradicate The Virus Before It Kills Your Data

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Consider yourself lucky if you are using a computer running on a Linux operating system, because hardly anybody bothers to create malicious bits of code for it. While users of Macintosh computers are slightly more at risk, computers running on the Windows O/S face the biggest threat from viruses and their ilk. Operating systems and computer technology has moved ahead immensely since the `Brain’ virus, coded by the infamous Sabri brothers of Pakistan. During those days, when the internet had not yet made its presence felt, floppy disks were the only way this particular virus, which corrupted the root sector of hard disk drives, could spread. The threat has increased manifold over the year with hundreds of thousands of virus strains creating havoc to computers that they infect. Antivirus experts categorize most of the under the following categories:

Spacefiller: These viruses increase the file size of documents, executives, and other files without causing any risk to the files themselves. bsod-windows-8-0x5c-hal-initialization-failed-56a6f9d85f9b58b7d0e5cc3eDue to this, most antivirus software cannot recognize them, as they do not contain typical strings of code that identifies viruses. This virus quickly fills up the empty space of the affected computer’s hard disk drive, causing it to and when booted, and display the BSOD (blue screen of death) on the monitor. This is where antivirus software could have made the difference. As it monitors the HDD in real time, it would have trapped and quarantined the virus the moment it invaded the system.
Boot Sector: They are extremely dangerous as they infect the MBR (master boot record) of the HDD. The MBR is like the content page of a book and provides information about the location (sector) of programs and data. Once the MBR is corrupted, the operating system will not be able to find the location of the files. These viruses are extremely dangerous and the only way to remove them is by doing a hard format of the HDD. Prevention is always better than cure. One could have avoided this menace by installing one of the reputable AV programs.
TSR: Terminate and stay resident viruses are deadly and have the ability to alter their code and replicate themselves in various locations of the disk drive. By the time a computer security expert removes one strain, the other strain starts causing chaos. This would not have taken place had there been a proper antivirus program installed on the HDD.
Direct: Unlike TSR viruses, these malicious bits of code typically attack executive and command files, rendering them useless. They would not have dared attacked these files in the presence of a good antivirus software.

Other types of threats
Trojans: Like the historical Trojan horse, they remain dormant in the HDD, and attack the system depending on the type of trigger the coder has coded into them. A typical case is a virus that would activate on a specific month and date. This virus created havoc by deleting the data of hundreds of thousands of computers all over the world. Only individuals who had anti trojans installed on their computer escaped this deadly piece of code that bypassed most antivirus software, except a few that had extremely high-security features in them.
Keyloggers: These critters sit silently on the HDD, noting down each keystroke punched by the user, and transmit the same periodically to the developer. It is easy to understand what that developer could have done, once he had the details of the credit card of the user whose computer was infected by that malware. Excellent antivirus programs have an inbuilt virtual keyboard, which one can use to input private details by clicking the keys on the virtual keyboard with their mouse’s pointer.
CryptLock: The deadliest variant of virus in the world, which encrypts all the date contained in the HDD, and displays a message providing information where the sufferer should send a sum of cash as ransom, in order to receive a key that decrypts the encrypted data. Only one or two AV programs can allegedly tackle this threat.

Selecting the best AV software
Searching online for the best AV program will not help as all of them claim to be the best. It is better to visit websites operated by professionals who test all AV software available, test each of them on computers infected with different types of viruses, evaluate the performance of each of them using specific parameters, and upload a detailed list of the 10 best AV programs available on the market. http://best10antivirussoftware.com is one of the leading sites where you can find such information.

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